You align with the priority of Love. (Pray).
The Witness Protocol. In the Kingdom, "Love" is not a sentiment; it is a priority of attention. Sam came to you for a "witness"—to be seen. In Genesis, the name for God is El Roi, "The God who sees me." When you refuse to turn the chair, you are denying Sam the very image of God you are meant to reflect. You are choosing the Idol (the work of your hands) over the Icon (the person in the doorway).