Everyone knew that the only thing you can legitimately give in exchange for a woman is another woman. In this case, everyone has to abide by the pretext that a woman will someday be forthcoming. In the meantime, as one ethnographer succinctly puts it, “the debt can never be fully paid.”
I find it commendable that the life of a woman is valued higher than a quantitative amount of rods here. The value of the person and by extension the value the couple has to bring about new lives is something that can’t be ignored.