No kidding! We don't really have the same sense of obligation to one another that many other cultures have, for a start. It turns out that during a pandemic, you have to sacrifice your own liberties for a short while, to keep others alive. Selflessness like that is hard even IF you believe you're doing the right thing. But I think we're also struggling in America with stay-at-home orders, because such orders clash with our value system. Not only is this uncomfortable or difficult for me to enact, it's challenging my values (individualism and independence reigning supreme) and my understanding of the world.