but if one single tear bedews her cheek, she is no longer strong in the sanctity of her vow.
emotions such as crying are seen as a moral failure.
but if one single tear bedews her cheek, she is no longer strong in the sanctity of her vow.
emotions such as crying are seen as a moral failure.
There are women who are too diffident, and too reserved, and carry their generosity to such an extent as to pretend not to be aware even of such anoyances as afford them just grounds of complaint.
endurance is framed as weakness rather than restraint and that is very interesting
A girl whom we thus educate, and who proves to be competent to bear us company, often disappoints us when she is left alone.
virtue appears stable only under male supervision
She is not only incapable of sharing these with him, but might carelessly remark, "What ails you?" How severely would this try the temper of a man
male irritation
As for the lower class, it would be almost useless to trouble ourselves with them."
a blunt statement regarding court hierarchy
But how often such girls as these are conceited about their own accomplishments, and endeavor unduly to disparage those of others!
shows that female talent is admired but also distrusted/ distasteful when the woman themself is self aware of the talent.
"how difficult it is to meet with a fair creature, of whom one can say, ‘This is, indeed, the one; here is, at last, perfection.’ There are, indeed, many who fascinate; many who are ready with their pens, and who, when occasion
romantic dissatisfaction is framed as an inevitable condition.
And so all stiffness and formality were dispensed with, and they did not scruple to reveal their secrets to each other.
break from court etiquette.
His father-in-law naturally felt for him, and his sons were sent to bear him company.
family obligation and sympathy.
He had always striven to keep all these intrigues in the utmost secrecy, and had to appear constantly virtuous. This caution was observed to such an extent that he scarcely accomplished anything really romantic, a fact which Katano-no-Shiôshiô 1 would have ridiculed.
He was so discrete that he undermined his passion as well.
Hikal Genji—the name is singularly well known, and is the subject of innumerable remarks and censures.
clearly they are well known, seems that he is both admired and criticised.