We cannot model perfection or show only one side of our professional selves and expect students to be comfortable being themselves with us.
This reminds me of how I had small-group conversations with students that I would never have had otherwise, and we got to talking about what worked and what didn't and I explained the reasoning behind class design more than I would have otherwise. I think we were a little more relaxed and open than we would have been if we were meeting in person. Many students said that they tuned out teachers talking to a class via zoom--they were not real and present enough, so with that in mind, I think it's interesting that we achieved an intimacy we wouldn't have in person, when we all interacted in a small group (3-4 of us). So this is a kind of literacy: reading when/how we connect at varying levels of relaxation and intimacy and when/how they enhance learning/communication and when they don't.