you look like an iron stove, dressed all in black with atop hat—your eyes glow like coals in a dying fire—and your face is awhite spot, like ashes
Perhaps it is just the personification of household appliances, but this bit reminds me a lot of Caroline or Change, whose cast includes a washing machine and a dryer. Interestingly, that musical also deals with a woman's unraveling mental state, although it does not share the same sexual themes and plot.