So I asked Berry directly: “Do you really think this will make a difference?” “I don’t know if it will make a difference,” he said. “But that is the wrong question. The right question is: Is it the right thing to do? I know it is the right thing to do.”
I believe that insight is everything because it is a game change. Once I change the focus from what the others will do or react? to what is really important to me and what is the right thing to do? It makes total difference, and also makes me feel stronger.