better for reinforcing defensive self-pride
I think this is a great point. This idea reminds me of Jamie Mayerfeld's negative outlook of group identity. Specifically the subset titled "Snobbish Pride." He says snobbish pride is "in inheriting as a birthright a valued identity that other people can never attain, or can attain only by special effort or dispensation."
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