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  1. Jun 2025
    1. predatory ‘Dominants’ and unsuspecting subs in the community. There were also many novice kinksters unsure of how to safely learn the ropes.

      still a concern to many kinksters. the plethora of information harm reduction at our disposal through disconnected forums and blogs has not reached its educational goals. Even for those who are driven to learning, simple barriers to self teaching include [not knowing the words to search], the dilution of valuable information hidden behind sponsored articles, niche intersections of fantasy which are not traditionally represented in harm reduction materials.

    1. Due to this major concern, as well as a variety of smaller ones, many of us within the BDSM community have begun to reject SSC in place of RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

      transition from SCC to RACK

    1. So while they may not adhere to these concepts, they do practice safety and consent and follow the spirit of BDSM rules.

      you dont have to follow any of these philosophies to practice ethical kink. These tools are outlines for people who need it

    2. if you’re okay with unsupervised bondage, you might find RACK a better fit than SSC because there’s no room for an activity that some people find unsafe.

      personal choice depending on lifestyle and risk profile.

      Some have the willingness to assume more risk or personal risk factors outside their control. The goal of my work is to meet everyone where they are at.

  2. Mar 2025