In his television program, Mr. Rogers wanted all children to feel cared for and loved. To do this, he intentionally fostered a parasocial relationship with the children in his audience (he called them his “television friends”): I give an expression of care every day to each child, to help him realize that he is unique. I end the program by saying, “You’ve made this day a special day, by just your being you. There’s no person in the whole world like you, and I like you, just the way you are.” Fred Rogers requesting funds for PBS at the US Senate in 1969 Now, as children, I (Kyle) and my sister watched this program and felt the effects of what Fred Rogers was doing and had different responses to it. I asked my mom to help me send him a letter asking if he was real, to which I got a letter back explaining that he was indeed a real person:
The section on parasocial relationships helped me understand why social media makes creators feel like “friends,” even when the relationship is one-sided. The Mr. Rogers example shows that parasocial relationships aren’t automatically bad, but they can become unethical if the creator isn’t clear about the limits of the relationship. This made me think about influencers today who intentionally blur those boundaries to seem more relatable.