This thought from Loris has helped me think about my use of nicknames for children, especially non-verbal, and my tendency to use them in my practice. During an anti-bias workshop last year, we began our work by sharing our personal name stories with the group. A majority of my colleagues had described a varying level of turmoil that came with nicknames they had been given. I began to reflect on work with young children and how I had given children nicknames. As a tried to justify my why, I realized it felt like it was coming from a place of humor or joy or playfulness. But, the child couldn't advocate for themselves to accept or deny this nickname. I decided to ask the families, at home visits, about nicknames. This has allowed me to understand where I am coming from as an educator with a new lens. There is an internal image, even if it may feel joyful for you, it may evoke a different feeling for families and children.