Just as the surgeons never compared radical mastectomy with other procedures, when you rely on personal experience to decide what is true, you usually don’t have a systematic comparison group because you’re observing only one “patient”: yourself. Perhaps you try tapping on your eyebrows to calm yourself in an anxious moment—and it seems to work! But how would you have felt if you’d tried something different? That salt lamp you’ve been using seems to reduce your stress, but what would have happened without it? Maybe you would have felt fine anyway. You might think visiting a rage room makes you calm down when you’re angry, but would you have felt even better if you had gone to the gym? What if you had done nothing and just let a little time pass
When finding the best solution to a problem, it is so important to not just settle with the first option. You can try something and believe it helps you, but it is also important that you try other things too, before deciding that’s the only way. I think this can also relate to deciding where you want to go to school. Comparing other peoples experiencing and ratings of different schools can help you find the right one for you, rather than just liking the rating on one and sticking with that one.