The words "rubbery white sponges" stood out to me because they make the food sound unappetizing and strange. Amy could have described the food in a more appetizing way, but instead she compares it to something rubbery and spongy. I think this shows how uncomfortable and embarrassed she feels about her family's food and traditions, especially because she wants to fit in with American culture.

I think this is an important moment because Amy is already embarassed about her Chinese traditions, especially because Robert and his family are there for dinner. When her father gives her the fish cheek she feels more ashamed because she thinks her family's food and traditions are different from what is considered normal in America. I think Amy really wants to fit in and be more American, so she worries that Robert will judge her because of her family