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  1. Mar 2026
    1. Those in powerful groups want to maintain their privileged position, but people at the margins see how the status quo benefits some and disadvantages others. Standpoint theorists believe that knowledge starting from the social location of marginalized people is like the physicist’s theory of light refraction. Such knowledge “can provide a more objective view than the perspective from the lives of the more powerful.”5 We should trust those who have the least to lose from challenging the status quo.

      Standpoint theory is basically saying that people in power usually want things to stay the same because it benefits them, but people on the margins can see the unfairness more clearly. It also argues that starting from the perspective of marginalized groups can actually give a more accurate view of reality, kind of like how light refraction helps you see things differently because they understand both their own experiences and how power works against them. Because of that, we should really pay attention to people on the margins since they have less to gain from keeping things the way they are and more reason to question it.

  2. Feb 2026
    1. Burgoon defined personal space as the “invisible, variable volume of space surrounding an individual that defines that individual’s preferred distance from others.”2 She claimed that the size and shape of our personal space depend on our cultural norms and individual preferences, but our space always reflects a compromise between the conflicting approach–avoidance needs that we as humans have for affiliation and privacy. The idea of personal space wasn’t original with Burgoon. In the 1960s, Illinois Institute of Technology anthropologist Edward Hall coined the term proxemics to refer to the study of people’s use of space as a special elaboration of culture.3 He entitled his book The Hidden Dimension because he was convinced that most spatial interpretation is outside our awareness. He claimed that Americans have four proxemic zones, which nicely correspond with the four interpersonal distances selected by my students:

      The part about personal space caught my attention because it shows we all kinda have an invisible bubble around us even if we do not think about it. When someone stands too close or too far it just feels off and changes how we see the interaction. The classroom example made sense because the professor reacted differently to each student just based on distance, not what they said. That shows communication is not only words, it is also space and body position. It explains why someone can feel awkward or rude even when they did not actually say anything bad. So distance affects how we judge people without us realizing it.

    2. Self-disclosure is reciprocal, especially in the early stages of relationship development. The theory predicts new acquaintances like Pete and Jon will reach roughly equal levels of openness, but it doesn’t explain why. Pete’s vulnerability could make him seem more trustworthy, or perhaps his initial openness will make transparency seem more attractive

      The part about self-disclosure being reciprocal stood out to me because it explains why some conversations feel normal and others feel awkward. When one person shares something kinda personal, the other person usually feels like they should share something too so it doesn’t feel one sided. If only one person keeps opening up while the other stays basic, the relationship can’t really get closer. This shows why relationships do not become deep right away and instead happen step by step. People basically test the waters before they trust someone more. So closeness comes from both people matching each other’s openness, not just talking a lot.