Most children of color, Cross and Cross point out, "are socialized to develop an identity that integrates competencies for transacting race, ethnicity and culture in everyday life.
Personal Annotation: I relate to this idea because growing up, I also had to learn how to navigate between different cultural expectations. Whether it was at school, with friends, or at home, I often had to adjust how I expressed myself depending on who I was around. This passage reminds me that developing this kind of cultural flexibility is not just about fitting in—it’s a key part of understanding who I am and where I come from.