'You gave me hyacinths first a year ago;
The Aeneid gives another example of love becoming very closely intertwined with death. Dido’s love for Aeneas starts as beautiful and overwhelming, but it is created through divine manipulation when Cupid causes her to fall in love with him. Once Aeneas leaves, that very same love becomes destructive enough that Dido kills herself using his sword and is surrounded by objects that remind her of him. Eliot creates a parallel contradiction in the hyacinth garden scene. The memory seems romantic, with flowers, wet hair, and the two characters returning to the garden together, yet the speaker responds by growing lifeless. In both works, love does not simply make someone feel more alive; an overwhelming experience of love actually brings them much closer to death. The parallel is that life and beauty are brought painfully close to death and loss.