The white writer feels injured in this moment—misunderstood and wounded—and believes it is the reader, the person of color, who has dealt the injury. This is how the white mind tends to racial “wounds”—it makes a mistake about who or what has dealt the injury. For it is not the reader of color who deals the injury. It is whiteness itself.
I really enjoy this description of what is inherently white fragility. Whiteness becomes a victim in this circumstance rather than understanding that they're subjecting POCs to another instance of writing that addresses race either carelessly or in a manner that could be improved. However, in this instance criticism is not welcome.