I think that in some ways, children can become seen as needy because our society is lacking in community support. Mothers for example have so many pressures and expectations put on them that they are stretched too thin to be able to be there for their children in every aspect that the child would benefit from them being able to be there. Mothers do not want to view their child as needy, it is not the child they are mad at, but many times it is the child who suffers from the lack of community support. The same can be said for teachers. They are asked to do too much and it takes away from their ability to listen and see the child as capable. Care taker do not consciously choose to see those in their care a burden or as incapable, it is the external stressors that blind them.