fit the script of what normally happens: man attacks woman, right?
It is sad that he was afraid to speak up about what happened because of how things could turn on him so easily.
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- Oct 2020
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Elementary students are old enough to understand nuance and to learn that tone of voice and body language are as important as the words being said
This is true but most elementary students will recognize it and ignore it.
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Too often, adults try to discourage students from showing sadness, anger, or discomfort, Li says, but learning to identify those emotions can help them advocate for themselves when they’re hurt, as well as develop empathy and recognize similar emotions in other children and adults when their actions are making others uncomfortable.
Teaching kids at a young age to express their emotions will be helpful to them in the future. They will have more confidence sticking up for themselves or even just stating their opinion
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For middle school or high school students, discussions around consent will, in part, involve sexuality, but for younger students, the conversation is different.
I think this Is a god thing. Children any younger than middle school don't need to go through sex ed to the full extent.
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- Sep 2020
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Yes, I'm rich. Get used to it' (James, 2012a, p.399) in response to her discomfort at his spending money on her which makes her feel as if she is being paid for sex
I don't blame her, I would feel this way too. He is trying to buy her and win her over.
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Ana does resist many of Christian's attempts to control her life: trying to give back his presents, and becoming angry at his interference in her job. However, she usually capitulates eventually.
I feel like Christian should've gotten the hint when she denied him multiple times.
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Lack of consent operates in both directions in the wider relationship between Christian and Ana.
This is partly true but since Christian is so dominant, it is mainly Ana that lacks consent.
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“Sex in a trusting relationship is often better because you cancommunicate more easily about what you want.”
I agree with this, it is easier to tell somebody you are with or love how you feel rather than a random person you just met or barley know.
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n contrast,according to the affirmative consent model, rape is defined by the absence of a clear andvoluntary“yes.”
The only time you should ever proceed in a sexual activity with somebody is when they clearly say the word yes. Anything other than those words coming from somebodies mouth, is a no.
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Sexting, the practice of sharing sexually suggestive images or text messages via mobilephone, is common among young adults.
I think sexting is a risky game when you're sending photos because those photos can stay on somebodies phone forever and you would have no idea. I think sexting without photos is fine and very common.
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Men, on the other hand, were encouraged to participate in public life
It shouldn't be this way. Women should not have to feel awkward or ashamed about who they had sex with and they should be able to talk about it with other people just like men do.
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Who’s got a picture of my body on their phone and is at a barbecueand looking at them. It was an unshakable, really awful feeling that after it healed a little bitmade me incredibly angry.
Nobody should ever have to feel this way, it is invading somebody else's privacy and others should have more respect than that.
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Though non-consensual pornography (commonly referred to as‘revenge porn’) is notunique to the Web, the ease with which users can distribute and publicize images to amass audience has made the issue far more pressing.
I didn't know this concept had a name but I do not agree with it in the slightest. I think if someone were to do this they should get into some serious trouble.
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act as a source of knowledge about sex for young people who don’t have access to other kinds of sex education,
In some ways I think this could be true, but from my prospective, I think most teenagers use porn for pleasure and not education. If anything it will give people nonrealistic ideas bout now sex should be at a young age.
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Some parents are comfortable doing “the talk,” but many are not.
I think most parents rely on heath teachers in the high school to give the kids "the talk" so they don't have to but it always seems more personal and important when a parent does it.
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Additionally, nearly half of young people are not being taught how to tell a healthy relationship from an abusive one.
When I was taught about sex in high school they didn't go into any depth about it they just scratched the surface about STDs and teen pregnancy's, when in reality it is more likely for sex to happen without consent in high school then someone getting an STD.
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The way we do sex is profoundly shaped by our social structures and the ideas we have about it.
I think more recently people have been having sex or have been feeling pressured to have sex because they feel pressured to fit in or want to be noticed by a guy/girl.
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Women who fail to do this, for instance by hav-ing casual sex, suffer social consequences.
No woman should ever be slut shammed or feel bad about themselves because of something they wanted to do
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an increasing amount of anecdotal evidence that men and non-binary people experience this too.
This topic isn't talked about enough because it isn't just woman raped by men in this world but that's all we hear about.
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- Aug 2020
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Asking is the first important thing we need to learn to do when it comes to consent.
Always ask and never assume because sometimes people are too scared to speak up!
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If we truly care about our own and our partners’ bodily autonomy, we should be ensuring that we and they are consenting to everything we choose to do together, whether that is cuddling, kissing, intercourse, kink, or an orgy.4
just because somebody said yes before doesn't mean it is a yes everytime or a yes to everything.
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if we want to be allowed to exercise our own bodily autonomy, we should respect that of others.
I 100% agree with this, if we do what we want with out own bodies we should respect others on their decisions with their own body.
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How do our conceptions of ourselves, for instance, impact our decisions to consent to or even initi-ate sex?
I believe that nowadays, woman and even men will have sex with someone just to fit in and if they do not give consent or are not comfortable with it, they will not do anything about it because they will be looked at differently or talked about.
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Social attitudes and upbringing condi-tion girls and women to believe that their purpose is to satisfy men’s sexual needs
Our society makes woman believe they need to satisfy men and in doing so, they go out of their way to become somebody their not and do things they may not be comfortable enough to do and if the woman doesn't succeed, they are shamed and talked about.
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rape culture
To me, rape culture is a society having such a strong effect on its environment that it normalizes rape or sexual assault and I do not agree with that. There should be no excuses for rape and this topic should be taken more seriously.
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