One of the greatest disadvantages to being personally attached to beliefsis that personal attachment increases the likelihood that anadversarial,competitive, or debater’s stancewill be taken in a discussion. If there is a‘‘my’’ view and a ‘‘your’’ view, it becomes more likely that the focus willbe on winning and proving that ‘‘I am right and you are wrong.
Instead of trying to understand other people's beliefs, we jump into harsh debates to prove why we are right and why they are wrong. I believe this is responsible for most of the debates and arguments that happen daily between individuals.