This demonstrates a poignant aspect of the reality of those who are not white in this society: they often have a complex relationship with whites, wanting to gain their friendship and approval even at the cost of humiliation.
The emotional and social burden carried by many racialized individuals to endure or downplay discrimination in order to be accepted in unfortunate. It highlights how racism doesn’t only operate through open hostility but also through subtle dynamics of power and belonging. The desire for social inclusion can force individuals to internalize or minimize harm, showing how oppression is often sustained through everyday interpersonal interactions rather than just overt acts of hatred.