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  1. May 2019
    1. stories involving relatively privileged white kids with caring, involved families

      Speaking from a color persons perspective, majority of the people I know, they do not support any trans movements. I feel like White people are more lenient and understanding. Colored people are mostly oppressed so this would not be something easy to swallow since they already have it hard to try to be "normal, which would be justified more with a heterosexual relationship.

    2. Some LGBTQ advocates have called for gender dysphoria to be removed from the DSM-5

      Many can beg to differ. Also like depression, some can say that being sad doesn't make you depressed and it should be removed. But if it is a thought and some therapists can talk you out of gender dysphoria then it should be deemed valid for the DSM-5. I know many are activists and feel passionate about it but I think it's appropriate.

    3. it is in many cases intimately tied to an individual’s social and familial life.

      I agree especially since she was able to talk many patients out of their gender dysphoria stage. I believe that a strong foundation of social support and family members to depend and listen are a great start. It is a necessity in any person's life but in a transitioning teen, crucial.

    4. showed that her clinic is giving cross-sex hormones to kids as young as 12

      I can't believe this. This is beyond ridiculous. I mean yes everyone has the right to do as they want but what about being 18 to make your own decisions as an adult. I disagree with this. You can't even be at Dave & Buster's unless accompanied by an adult, why can you get consent to receive hormones.

    5. Experiencing gender dysphoria isn’t the same as experiencing anxiety or depression or psychological ailments, of course. But in certain ways it is similar:

      As stated in the DSM-5, they all have different definitions and diagnoses so I agree but then why are they treated the same. They can be similar and some also come concurrently when another ailment is present.

    6. all have a right to compassionate, comprehensive care, whether or not that includes hormones or surgery.

      I agree!!! Some people just need a shoulder to lean on which is what I think Singal was trying to shine light on throughout this entire passage: knowing your children better, being more accepting and understanding, seeking therapy, have a support system, being you and comfortable doing so.

    7. Perhaps a first step is to recognize detransitioners and desisters as being on the same “side” as happily transitioned trans people

      This is a great way to wrap things up. As long as the individual is happy, that's all that matters.

    8. “there may be compelling reasons to initiate sex hormone treatment prior to age 16 years … there is minimal published experience treating prior to 13.5 to 14 years of age.”

      I don't think this is a good idea either. They are too young to decipher what they potentially want. THEY ARE CHILDREN.

    9. I don’t send someone to a therapist when I’m going to start them on insulin.” Of course, gender dysphoria is listed in the DSM-5; juvenile diabetes is not.

      I feel like gender dysphoria is more of a mental health concern than a diabetes case. That comment was not needed. However, if someone is going through a crisis and learning to accept their new self then yes, see a therapist, that doesn't mean something necessarily negative.

    10. establishing a therapeutic relationship entails honesty and a sense of safety

      Individuals should not feel insecure when talking to their therapist but instead relieved so I agree with this statement. After speaking to my therapist, my eyes opened and I was able to get on the right track that I needed guidance to get back on. Very thankful to have that support and extra push.

    11. Not everyone agrees about the importance of comprehensive assessments for transgender and gender-nonconforming youth.

      I agree because many people are still stuck on cis norms and not all 50 states condone LGBTQI ideology.

    12. I was fine with just being me and not being a specific thing.”

      I think this is awesome. This is what people need to hear. I feel like this article and the individual findings alone can inspire many peoples and open the eyes of lost teens who are in the process of being trans or encountering any hardships like the subjects discussed.

    13. Her gender dysphoria eventually lifted.

      This is what I was talking about previously. In some cases, the child/person can be confused and just need someone to talk to instead of jumping to the needle and seeking hormones. Edwards-Leeper is onto something good. A smart woman indeed.

    14. Rather, she asked Delta a host of detailed questions about her life and mental health and family

      I agree 100%! Mental health is essential in order to live a prosperous life if you ask me. I am glad that they focused on her thought process first. This is key.

    15. Her parents were skeptical

      My parents would be too. They would question themselves and try to figure out where they went wrong especially since they are so old school.

    16. genderqueer, then nonbinary, and finally trans

      Can this be because they were secluded from society and the influence of other students? Maybe they followed certain trends from social media.

    17. Suddenly, it seemed, no one was cisgender anymore.

      I agree with this, it seems as if gay is in now. It is not something to jump on the bandwagon for, it is a real life dilemma that many people in the LGBTQI society undergo. But everyone has the right to practice and believe what they please. Sometimes people focus so much on fighting for gay rights, they forget about heterosexuals. Not to shy away from things but abortion is something that people in heterosexual relations are struggling with A LOT.

    18. Oh, Steve is really trans, but Rachel is just doing it for attention.

      This makes me think of a personal experience I had in high school. I used to always dress like a tomboy and people would automatically think that I was a dyke and liked girls but I was just comfortable even though I had a boyfriend at the time. My school had MANY gay girls so instead of Bayside, they called my school Gayside. So, many thought that I was lost and trying to fit more into the popular crew at school when I was definitely not in fact trying to do anything for attention.

    19. anecdotal evidence suggests

      I appreciate Singal stating anecdotal advice, she seems very supportive and not bias. This makes me believe her findings more and the article seems to be more sincere and dedicated to a more sensitive audience since it is on a sensitive topic.

    20. No one’s taking me seriously—my parents think this is a phase or a fad.

      I know this may seem a bit cynical but that's how I feel what should happen... If I were a parent at least. I rather have them wait things out so it is THEIR choice before they regret something like has happened to other teens in prior cases. It is better to be safe than sorry but I definitely do support them talking to their children and being more understanding.

    21. contagion

      Contagion defined is the communication of disease from one person to another by close contact. OR ... the spreading of a harmful idea or practice.

    22. it’s the parents who are having trouble not knowing whether their kid is a boy or a girl

      Does this have to do with intersex? I wonder if the parents will try and send them to therapy because THEY don't know how to deal with the situation at hand.

    23. These parents are worried that their kids are influenced by the gender-identity exploration they’re seeing online and perhaps at school or in other social settings, rather than experiencing gender dysphoria.

      This reminds me about what we learned in class, about sex and the city. Sometimes the government and setting affect the way people portray themselves and their sexuality. The fluid is different and sometimes may or may not be as welcoming. So this can relate to the article since they feel their social setting is the cause of gender dysphoria. Some laws in different states also prohibit same sex marriage ultimately, causing them to think more heterosexually.

    24. “Would you rather have a live daughter or a dead son?”

      In Joy Jacobson's article, Michelle Rini's 11-year-old son, Sebastian, was encountering an identity conflict, more along the lines of gender-dysphoric. This relates to Singal's thoughts because she attempts to show what Jacobson is trying to shine light upon, to accept your child regardless of anything they believe. Rini's born son, Sebastian, then changed his name and prenoun to her and Hanna. The parents went along with it and were happy that their new daughter was confident and able to be herself. That's what people tend to forget. Which is why suicide would be something that confused teens look to because their families are not supportive and that is often majority of their support system which is now against you.

    25. access to hormones is the difference between suicide and survival

      THANK GOD! This is great information for the audience. I am more sane when reading this finding. It is very humbling.

    26. blockers can be a crucial tool to buy time, and sometimes there’s a genuine rush to gain access to them

      I beg to differ. I totally understand teens should be open to sexuality but when they are preteens, they are discovering themselves and don't know what exactly they want, just being curious. I think that individuals should wait til they're 18 to decipher if they want to undergo having blockers. I know they are crucial but it may or may not be a mistake as Singal says previously in the article.

    27. young people to become suicidal if they aren’t granted immediate access to puberty blockers or hormones

      I can understand this because some individuals may be experiencing a tough time not only emotionally economically so this makes sense. I am glad that Singal included this in the article because it shows that trans people are not naive but that they are accepting of themselves and their bodies so being patient for hormones is just another step process. But also an eye opener that they must wait in order to feel comfortable in their own/new skin.

    28. a population facing high instances of homelessness, sexual assault, and discrimination

      I wonder if this is because they are struggling with the majority of society and their heterosexual ideologies. They have a lot of conflicts with self acceptance as is so they are finding themselves. It is not fair.