we tend to believe that what is personally meaningful about theexperience of joining in is shared by everyone else. is is the ‘false consensus bias
I have never heard of this consensus before, but as someone who grew up in an evangelical church, I can absolutely see how this could be true. And, it reminds me of how Professor Davis started class on Thursday with the reading about father and son. He described how even though perhaps neither father or son could have listed out the steps of their nightly ritual, both would know when it was disrupted or changed.