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  1. May 2024
    1. Lydia has Girl Scouts on many Thursdays; today I have to pick her up early from Scouts to take her to the doctor's office to get a prescription for her enuresis. Unfortunately, we get to the office a little late, and the doctor will not see us. We reschedule for the following week, meaning more time off work for me and a longer wait to address this problem.

      This situation highlights a broader issue within professional spheres—namely, the failure to provide inclusive and considerate support to individuals with disabilities and their families. Rather than offering constructive advice and assistance, the instructor's response seems to suggest a lack of willingness to engage with the complexities of the child's needs.

    2. Situations like this are reminders that no matter how much I might want it to be so, Lydia will never be able to do what children who are typically developing can do. Grieving is an ongoing experience when you have a child who has disabilities.

      It's deeply disheartening to hear about the lack of empathy and understanding displayed by the professional who was supposed to offer guidance and reassurance to the author regarding her child. To be told that the professional "doesn't know how to deal" with a child who is described as "oppositional" and "developmentally delayed" feels like a profound betrayal of trust and a dismissal of the challenges the author and her daughter face.

    3. Wednesdays are rather long days for us, as I teach a late-night class. This year Lydia has been coming home on the bus Wednesdays and we are together for a couple of hours until I go back to teach until 10 p.m.

      Ultimately, this paper serves as a powerful call to action, urging educators and policymakers to reevaluate their approaches to supporting students with disabilities and to prioritize the creation of educational spaces that celebrate diversity, promote equity, and empower every student to reach their full potential.

    4. Drawing on a brief snippet from our profoundly interrelated lives (Hillyer, 1993), I argue that educators must reconsider the positioning of children who differ from the "norm," and stop labeling, and hence limiting, children.

      This paper calls for a critical review of current educational practices to identify and address systemic barriers that hinder the inclusion and success of students with disabilities. It advocates for the implementation of strategies and interventions that foster a more supportive and inclusive learning environment for all students, regardless of their abilities or differences.

    5. In this paper I draw on my life story as a teacher educator and the mother of a daughter with disabilities to trouble the identity that positions and labels her as, first and foremost in U.S. school settings, a "child with special needs."

      By shedding light on the limitations and implications of the "child with special needs" label, the document emphasizes the need for a fundamental shift in how we perceive and support students with disabilities. It underscores the importance of recognizing each child as an individual with unique strengths, interests, and abilities, rather than reducing them to a single label.

    1. Laws and regulations canhelp them improve school climate and help them know how to put inclusiveknowledge into practice. Homophobia and transphobia, in a very real sense,affect everyone-even professionals who know they ought to do better bysexual and gender minority students feel constrained by the biases circulat-ing in their schools.

      Moreover, isolation can hinder academic performance. Without a supportive peer group, students may struggle to engage fully in their studies, participate in class, or seek help when needed. The absence of a social support network can make school a daunting and unwelcoming place, further impacting a student's ability to succeed.

    2. Finding neither overt support from LGBTQyouth, either because they haven't joined such friendship or organizationalnetworks or because they do not fit the definitions of the terms LGBTQ, norsupport from heterosexual peers because they don't fit there either, ques-tioning youth are isolated and experience more bullying and depressionthan other groups (Birkett et al., 2008).

      Belonging to a group helps students feel recognized and valued for who they are, which is essential for their self-esteem and mental well-being. Peer groups offer companionship, understanding, and shared experiences, which are crucial for personal development and resilience. These groups can provide support in times of stress, offer diverse perspectives, and encourage positive social behaviors, all of which are beneficial for a student's overall growth.

    3. The experience ofhostility and disapproval has an effect on LGBTQ youth school outcomes.In addition, research indicates that such negative outcomes of school-basedbias are felt even more strongly by students who are questioning their sexu-ality (Williams et al., 2005).

      Finding a group is extremely important for students because it provides a sense of belonging, acceptance, and acknowledgment, contributing significantly to a safer and more supportive environment. During formative years, especially in educational settings, being part of a group offers emotional security and validation, helping students navigate the complexities of social and academic life.

    4. The impact of these misunderstandings can have a major effect on stu-dents' ability to access education and to thrive in school and out. James E.Gruber and Susan Fineran (2008) found that the adverse effects of sexualharassment were greater than those of bullying, and those adverse effectswere particularly evident among young women and sexual minority stu-dents.

      A critical issue within our education system is the widespread misunderstanding and misapplication of laws and policies related to bullying and sexual harassment. It's deeply concerning that many teachers do not fully grasp the distinction between bullying and sexual harassment, particularly regarding peer-based harassment. This lack of understanding can lead to a failure to recognize and appropriately address instances of gender-based harassment, thereby perpetuating a hostile learning environment for students.

    5. These trainings ought not to be "one and done" processes; more-over, all too often trainings and obligations under Title IX and other anti-discrimination policies are resisted altogether. Ullman (2018) describesschools that significantly restructure their understanding of gender-relatedbias and anti-transgender bias, offering students space to discuss such is-sues weekly and involving teachers in rethinking how schools can becomemore inclusive. Charmaraman et al.

      When educators are not equipped with the proper knowledge and training to differentiate between these forms of harassment, they cannot effectively intervene or support affected students. This oversight can allow harmful behaviors to continue unchecked, creating a school culture where students feel unsafe and unsupported. It's crucial for schools to provide comprehensive training for teachers and staff on the nuances of bullying and sexual harassment, emphasizing the specific dynamics of gender-based harassment.

    6. Charmaraman et al. argue that more training is needed to ensure that schoolprofessionals understand Title IX's requirement that policies and action en-sure an equitable learning environment. As discussed in the Introduction tothis volume, neglecting to protect students from gender-based discrimina-tion can lead to school district liability, as well as negative student out-comes, so ensuring that all school personnel understand their obligations iscrucial

      Addressing this issue is not just about compliance with laws and policies; it's about creating an educational environment where all students can learn and thrive without fear of harassment. By ensuring that educators understand and can effectively apply anti-bullying and anti-harassment policies, we can move towards a more inclusive and respectful school culture. This shift is essential for fostering the well-being and academic success of all students, particularly those who are most vulnerable to gender-based harassment.

    7. Further, youth whoare out or public about their gender identity or sexual orientation weremore likely to report experiencing more harassment, but they also expresseda higher sense of self-esteem.

      The fact that LGBTQ students who endure severe harassment are more likely to plan for higher education speaks volumes about their determination and resilience. Nevertheless, the detrimental effects on their academic performance and attendance cannot be overlooked. Schools must recognize the critical role they play in creating a safe and inclusive environment where all students, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity, can thrive.

    8. LGBTQ studentswho experience extreme harassment in schools are likely to report plans tocontinue their education beyond high school, and students who experiencedmore LGBTQ-related victimization at schools reported a lower grade pointaverage and higher absenteeism

      The research findings also reveal the remarkable resilience of LGBTQ students. Despite facing increased harassment, those who are open about their identities often exhibit higher self-esteem. This illustrates the profound importance of authenticity and the strength that comes from being true to oneself, even in the face of adversity. However, the everyday experiences of isolation and harassment still take a significant toll, leading to lower grades and more absences among these students.

    9. The examples of youth suicide or homophobic and transphobic murder areextreme manifestations of bias. But in each case, a less spectacular, moreeveryday experience of homophobia or transphobia also preceded the moreviolent act.

      This passage poignantly underscores the personal toll that everyday acts of homophobia and transphobia can inflict on LGBTQ students. It's heartbreaking to consider that these students, who are merely trying to navigate the complexities of school life, often face isolation and harassment. These negative experiences can severely impact their attendance and educational aspirations, highlighting the urgent need for schools to be more supportive and understanding.

    10. So the scope of gender- and sexuality-related harassmentis quite broad for women. Because young men have a narrower range ofacceptable masculine behavior, they too are targets for homopl1obic harass-ment on the basis of any gender nonconforming behavior, including havingany forms of disagreement devolve into homophobic taunts.

      This behavior not only fosters unnecessary hatred but also deepens societal divides. Our fear of external perceptions drives this negative behavior, which ultimately harms everyone involved. It's crucial to challenge these attitudes and promote a culture of respect and acceptance, ensuring that no student feels targeted or unsafe because of their identity.

    11. The 2019 GLSEN survey found that 60% of LGBTQ students surveyedhad been sexually harassed in the past year (Kosciw et al., 2020).

      The 2019 GLSEN survey found that 60% of LGBTQ students had been sexually harassed in the past year. This statistic highlights a pervasive issue: the public often perceives LGBTQ students as weak or unable to defend themselves, which bullies exploit to target them. Such harassment is never acceptable, regardless of a person's sexual orientation or gender identity.

    12. Many LGBTQ students reporthearing insulting words on a daily basis. According to the 2019 NationalSchool Climate Survey of the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network(GLSEN), three quarters of students reported hearing derogatory languagesuch as "faggot" and "dyke" (Kosciw et al., 2020).

      I strongly agree with this statement. Increasing awareness and education on LGBTQ topics empowers students to educate themselves and others, promoting a more inclusive and respectful school culture. It's particularly important for students who are exploring their identities but lack a safe space to discuss these issues. By integrating LGBTQ representation and discussions into the curriculum, schools can provide the support and visibility these students need, encouraging acceptance and understanding among all students.

    13. Ignoring the issue of sexuality meansneglecting to provide LGBTQ students with representations of themselvesthat enable them to understand themselves, and to provide examples ofways to counter bias and work toward respect for those who initially maynot be willing to respect LGBTQ students.

      Ignoring the issue of sexuality in school curricula means neglecting to provide LGBTQ students with essential representations of themselves, which are crucial for their self-understanding and development. This neglect also fails to offer examples of ways to counter bias and promote respect among peers who may initially be unwilling to accept LGBTQ individuals. Addressing sexuality in education is vital for fostering an inclusive environment where all students can see themselves reflected and valued.

    1. Sex education contin-ues to be a relatively conservative part of schools, leading with abstinencc-until-marriage messages that not only exclude most LGBTQ students,but also leave girls at disproportionate risk for unwanted pregnancy (notbecause-obviously-only girls can get pregnant, but because so few youngmen are held responsible for the children that result).

      This is a crucial statement because it reminds us that gender bias is a multifaceted issue affecting both genders. While much attention is rightly given to how gender roles belittle women, it is equally important to recognize that men can also feel misjudged and pressured by these roles. Addressing gender bias comprehensively requires acknowledging and addressing its impact on all individuals, regardless of gender.

    2. Even though we live in a time whengender norms continue to stretch, especially for women, schools are stillinstitutions where gender sorting occurs, whether it is in the classroom or incommunity settings that debate policy and curricula.

      The analysis points out that despite some progress towards more flexible gender norms, many schools continue to uphold outdated practices such as gender sorting and conservative sex education. These practices perpetuate traditional notions of gender and significantly affect students' well-being. For example, sex education programs focusing on abstinence until marriage often exclude LGBTQ students and fail to address crucial issues like pregnancy and reproductive responsibility, disproportionately affecting young women.

    3. Gender bias is also a problem not only for women. Young men whounderstand cultural messages about masculinity as encouraging their dem-onstration of superiority show their power through aggressive taunting.

      This passage effectively highlights the pervasive issue of gender bias, emphasizing that it impacts not only women but also men, especially young men in educational settings. Societal expectations of masculinity often compel young men to assert dominance through aggressive behaviors like taunting, driven by the fear of being perceived as weak or non-heterosexual. These behaviors reflect deeply ingrained stereotypes about masculinity and strength, underscoring the restrictive nature of traditional gender norms.

    4. Understanding the interplay of normative identities, intersections ofidentity categories, and creative reworkings of norms and categories canhelp provide better strategies for members of school communities to con-sider their own practices more carefully and to challenge how normativityand homophobia create barriers to education for all students.

      Thorne's work highlights the significant role educational institutions play in sorting and labeling individuals based on gender and sexuality. However, she also points out that within these institutions, elementary school students often challenge and reinterpret gender norms. This indicates that gender, as a social construct, can be viewed as a flexible and open-to-interpretation category. By embracing and encouraging this perspective, schools can become spaces where traditional gender norms are questioned, allowing for a more inclusive and supportive environment that reduces bullying and harassment.

    5. Gender nonconformity and sexual minority status may be linked byschool peers inaccurately, exacerbating the harassment transgender youthface (D' Augelli et al., 2006).

      The misinterpretation of the link between gender nonconformity and sexual minority status by peers, leading to increased harassment of transgender students, underscores the urgent need for better education and awareness in schools. This is a critical point, as understanding normative identities is essential for fostering an environment where each student's unique identity is respected. By enhancing educational strategies to improve connection and relatability among students, schools can effectively break down barriers and create a more equitable learning environment for all.

    6. People of all sexualities and gendersexperience these social pressures to conform, whether they actively try toconform or they are nonconformist or they don't even know they are tryingto conform.

      In Hispanic households, gender norms tend to be particularly rigid. Hispanic men are often pressured to embody a form of masculinity that can border on toxic, while women are expected to adhere strictly to traditional femininity. Deviating from these norms can lead to harsh judgments and being perceived as a disgrace to the family. This cultural context highlights the broader societal pressures that reinforce rigid gender roles, making the journey towards acceptance and self-expression even more challenging for LGBTQ individuals. Recognizing and addressing these entrenched norms is essential for fostering a more inclusive and understanding society.

    7. Men have to act inaccordance with norms regulating masculinity, and women nee<l to be femi-nine, not only in order for their genders to be legible in expected ways butalso to justify the "opposites attract" version of heterosexuality.

      Gender and sexuality are fundamental organizing categories in schools and society, deeply influencing everyone's experiences, including those who challenge these norms. Unfortunately, gender nonconformity and sexual minority status are often conflated by peers, leading to heightened harassment of transgender youth. This conflation underscores the interconnectedness of gender and sexuality, as LGBTQ students navigate their identities through both lenses, complicating attempts to separate these concepts.

    8. horne showstoo that gender salience ebbs and flows, and that students understand andrework the gender binary messages they receive. Even ~s her ':"ork pushes usto think beyond simple questions about what ge~der 1s ~nd '.nsread look athow and why gender differences emerge in particular s1tuat1ons, her work37

      This highlights a significant yet often overlooked point: the social construct of gender is so deeply ingrained that we unconsciously perpetuate gendered practices. Recognizing and addressing these behaviors, especially in our interactions with young children, is crucial for promoting gradual social change and deconstructing entrenched gender norms. By consciously avoiding gendered distinctions in educational and social settings, we can help cultivate a more inclusive and equitable mindset from an early age.

    9. Concerned that the institutional culture of schools not only creates rigidideas about gender but also pits one gender against the other, she suggeststhat adults in schools consider more carefully the messages about genderthat even simple practices, like making gender-based small groups or en-couraging gender-segregated play, convey to young people.

      Reflecting on my elementary school experience, I recall how teachers often divided us into boys versus girls for games, creating an immediate sense of tension and competition to prove which gender was superior. These early experiences undoubtedly influenced me, fostering a competitive spirit and a strong sense of camaraderie among girls. Growing up surrounded by females, I became a staunch advocate for feminism and the importance of girls supporting girls.

    10. In her book Gender Play: Girls and Boys at School, Barrie Thorne (1993)examines how and why gender comes to have salience in young people'sschool experiences. Practices like having elementary students line up bygender or organizing teams of boys against girls, she argues, highlight theimportance of gender differences to young students at a time when theyalso are working through different ways of being gendered themselves.

      The perspective that young children naturally perceive gender in a simplified way and are not deeply affected by gender differentiations in early education is an important one. Indeed, at very young ages, children are more.

    11. Drawing on theories discussing gender as a process, homophobia, and intcr-sectionality, this chapter examines the pervasiveness of heteronormativityand the varieties of queerness to help readers understand where bias comesfrom, as well as be attuned to differences in the experiences of gender di-verse, creative, and/or nonconforming students and/or sexual minority stu-dents.

      The opening paragraph's assertion that gender is not a fixed attribute but a dynamic and socially constructed concept is both insightful and essential for contemporary discourse. Emphasizing gender fluidity disrupts traditional binary notions, paving the way for a more inclusive understanding of identity. This perspective is crucial because it acknowledges that people's experiences of gender are diverse and evolving, shaped by social interactions rather than rigid biological determinants. Furthermore, the focus on intersectionality is invaluable, as it compels us to consider the complex, overlapping identities that individuals navigate.