for: example, example - double bind, you never tell me that you love me

example: double bind

• you never tell me that you love me
• parent encouraging children to be independent but then asking them " don't you love me?"
• encouraging children to speak their mind but then having standardized test scores
• having to work to stay alive but sacrificing being with our children, aged parents or other loved ones in order to do so
• maintaining our current precarious lives working at destructive and meaningless jobs in order to survive

comment

• these examples seem to be more indicative of contradiction than multiple contexts