watch out for unobservable facts have observable consequence.

主动学习者的技能是一旦获得终生受用的。因为经历过的实践，旅行，和人际关系，带来幸福感和挫折感都成了宝贵的财富。即使主动学习带来的乐趣和痛苦分量相当，人脑也只会记住幸福感，而忘却痛苦，对新事物的纯求知乐趣会成为一辈子的习性。

实践出来的真知有天然的科学思辨性，因为实践的过程不可能是一帆风顺，所有通过坚毅得出真知的实践，都面对过不同程度不同视角的挑战，换句话说，是经过思辨选择之后的结果。这样提炼之后形成的思维更经得起未来的考研，更全面和更容易的未以后的实践中最决策产生正面的效应，从而产生认知正循环。相比之下认识负循环和内循环，这容易用一个没经过实践验证过的理论去解释另一个正在经历的实践的失败结果。

这点对家长特别难，因为孩子的好奇心意味着，时间，花销，精力，甚至危险。要想成为一个好家长，首先要自己要储备足够的精力，修养足够的耐心（对于很多家长，只要有精力还是有耐心的，毕竟是亲生的娃），还要有足够的财力。

满足好奇心是学习的最强内驱力

我爱我的老师，我更爱我真理。

我就是这么搜集癖，非要整理好三个看书时候的Playlist 一个莫扎特 一个巴赫 一个爵士乐每个乐手的最佳专辑

绝对是一本重修炼的个体无论是在艺术还是创业上都能放在身边随时用来内化的书。

we have announced start of book reading as of Nov 2020, and we just figured out not many people knows how to use ebook, so I have started research and trying to utilizing reader.epubee.com plus this popular notes taking tools. we will start next sunday for this chapter or reading and sharing

it's amazing how things popping up around you. Was talking to my photographer today joking about I would have use his work when I'm on cover of Fortune magazine. I told him, anyone in my profession would have a shot at it, if stick to it for 40 yrs, considering I am 44 years old (6 years into my current profession) and I can work till 75 ( at least). by the way our found is at age 70 and recently announced 20 years of career plan.

the way to treat stress is drive by our past experience with it, it's a vicious circle if you don't drag yourself out of it. The more fear of stress, the less you can cope with stress and you turn to avoiding it, then less capable when facing it next time. The only way to be better at it is to build stronger muscle on coping with it by seeking right amount stress on your way fulfilling your purpose, that's when you use your strongest mental muscle to training yourself to gain stress handling muscle.

The reason we manage energy not time is like the resources on earth, is driven by perception and demand, when the price is up, the perception of it is in scarcity and when price falling it's perceived as abondance. What's actually happening is when demand is higher ( when you are under right amount of pressure) you turn to find ways to explore the untapped reservoir and be more efficient therefore it's going to be not limited nor knowing exact capacity