But not every activity should — or even can — be outsourced. Consider decisions that parents make in the course of raising children. In deliberating about whether to send them to private school, or whether to allow them to start dating at age 13, or whether to require they attend church, parents do not simply reason instrumentally, finding the most efficient means of achieving preset child-rearing goals. They also seek to determine what their values are, what goals are worth pursuing, and what raising this particular child is all about. They identify tensions between the values they hold, they set priorities, and they make tradeoffs. This is part of what constitutes the activity of parenting. Were a couple to simply find a parenting consultant and then relentlessly defer to them, they wouldn’t be establishing themselves as particularly dedicated parents. They wouldn’t be parenting at all.
The reasoning in this paragraph is staggering. The old, "If you don't know what you're doing, do it how it was done to you," is largely to blame for the state of education today. IF we're interested in teaching (and parenting) better than we were taught (and I argue we should), we ought to consult with others who have more experience and knowledge (that's called teaching and learning, by the way). This has nothing to do with "outsourcing" or not doing the work at hand... it's about doing it better.