But community must not mean a shedding of our differences, nor the pathetic pretense that these differences do not exist
What a great, simple critique of bullshit "solidarity" cries.
Of course, it raises for me feelings of discomfort because I've observed that even those who frequently profess to value difference within a community often still believe it important that the community present a unified face when perceived by outside groups.
Even within a single company, this sort of philosophy manifests frequently as executives fighting viciously with one another while smiling and acting as though they are all of one mind when presenting to the rest of the company.